Here I go again guys - SIL : I have always thought this means sister in law but the context of the post just read infers is a position in the congregation...
Mary J Blige
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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How to get JWs to listen and REALLY think about TTATT...
by C0ntr013r ini have been trying to discuss and reason with jws about their beliefs for some time now and it usually ends in "agree to disagree".
i just don't feel like i am getting anywhere, they get their guard up super easy and will dismiss anything no matter how logical or factual.. so the other day i tried another tactic, instead of arguing for another point of view i started to agree with them.
this made them much more talkative and open, their guard went away somewhat.
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Mary J Blige
My dad was telling me about cult mind control - the book by Steve Hassan helped him to understand why the defense and how to get the point across without negative reinforcement.
Dad's observations were that close long time family and friends were instantly dismissive with the apostate label but those who were academic of mind (research driven and/or had higher education) either were easy to reason with or would step through the facts to arrive at the same point: they couldn't reconcile the truth of the bible with the teachings of the WT.
Dad's experience has also been that of those who are "in" and "get it" , it is the fear of losing by leaving that keep them in rather than them being ignorant of the facts.
I think that method of questioning in a conversational manner is correct though - in terms of building rapport and trust ones defenses will be let down. If they see it or not after that point....
But dear Lord - give me patience!!
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
Oh my. There's an apostate dictionary? This is so interesting. Thank you all thus far - I will no doubt continue to find and post things and I really appreciate your time in answering without making me feel like a nit wit.
All these changing terms... sounds like a substitution or disguise - creating new terms for new light or (perceived) innovation.
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
Until reading these forums, I had never heard R&F either. Haha, great list, thankyou!
LDC anyone?
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
I try my best!! ;)
Apathy trollies - another gem leaned from you punkofnice - I gather they are the propaganda stands... when did they become the craze anyway? I haven't seen them here in the flesh but did see them on web....
And when did jw.org start going all techhie? Gawsh
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
Thank you thank you punkofnice and TheListener. Two things on that list I had no idea of - nor Caleb and Sophia but get that now - thanks!. The meaning of a lot of these slang terms would not be clear for people who speak English as a second language too aside those disassociated for some time. (Example 'hogwash' for René Vázquez and RC I would have assumed Roman Catholic). Might not be clear cut for those lacking a warped sense of humor either! -
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
Not just acronyms but slang and colloquialisms too.
GB - Governing Body, JC judicial committee ...
TTATT I guess is the truth about....
Eldub - I guess a random elder JW...
RC and RTOs and ???
When I was active there were "assemblies" - district or circuit (DAs or CAs) you had MSs and COs. Now I read COBs and HL??? The acronyms for groups / individuals and tasks/events that have changed in the last 12 years because the mechanics has changed I guess. As a near df'd person I had noone feeding me JW doctrinal changes or simple lingo changes so now there's some stuff that I am trying to understand by reading the context of the sentence rather than posting "what's an X?"
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Do you have a JW hero?
by Island Man inwhen i say jw hero i mean a jw who courageously did what was right despite the indoctrination and peer pressure to conform to cultishness.
i have an unknown jw hero that i've never met but only heard of from an experience relayed to me about an incident at a jw funeral.. i was told that at a jw funeral internment, a non-jw put a wreath in the shape of a cross on the grave.
shortly thereafter a jw elder came up and removed the wreath.
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Mary J Blige
I have yet to visit the site, but it's recommended by Steve Hassan.
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Index of acronyms : help for new forumers
by Mary J Blige inam finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and i now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters.
wondering please if you can post your definitions so i can get up to speed.
otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, i am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
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Mary J Blige
Hi everyone!!
Am finding a whole lot of acronyms that are really foreign to me and I now have an appreciation for what cult language sounds like to non-culters. Wondering please if you can post your definitions so I can get up to speed. Otherwise, as an indoctrinated ex-culter, I am inclined to create my own new light and swiftly it will be gospel.
Even links to old threads if this has come up before would be fantastic. I am spending so much time reading thread after thread that take me off in so many research directions, I am having trouble keeping up.
Thanks much!!!
No more drama!!!
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JW's came to my door 6 weeks ago. I told them I was inactive.......
by Alchemist in6 weeks ago some jws came to my door.
i've been inactive for 8 years.
after they gave their presentation i told them i was inactive.
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Mary J Blige
Not sure if anyone else has touched on this but wanted to put it out there before heading to work...
With the policy changes that have come of late - requests for $$ and changing terms 'generation' and dates around annointed etc...There is a GROUND SWELL of very long serving, faithful JWs who have been on the fence for a while.
Have you considered that they haven't contacted you because they care about your wellbeing? How easy it would be to 'forget' you because they know the consequences (in terms of their standing before God) of bringing you back?
It makes me think of my father, an ex elder and 40 yr veteran who dropped the bomb on me just on Friday. Over the weekend I have read Ray Franz book Crisis of Conscience and a huge amount of forum related material. The comment that really hit me was that my father said he could "no longer pursue witnessing in clear conscience". So if that is how he feels, how many others right now are in that exact position?
The alternative possibility is that Jehovah directs his people and the fact that you have not heard from the JWs is because in some way this has been divinely orchestrated.
I endorse the comments of others. Read the credible websites that are neutral (plenty of ex JWs who are deeply spiritual but don't affiliate to any org). Then, reflect on your blessings. You have an amazing community of on line supporters at your finger tips, 24 hrs a day.
Keep investigating!